So I made post about different things you can use for body writing with some pros and cons if you want to give that a read. Either way, I’m assuming that now you’ve got your writing instrument in hand and are ready to go, but where to start?
Honestly, like with any kink, what you write, how you write it, and where you write it is going to be up to your personal preferences. If your brain is in submissive mode though, as it may be if you’re here and looking for tips on this, then you may have some trouble finding inspiration. My advice to you is to consider what kind of partner you’re looking for and what kinds of acts you’d like to do or words you’d like to hear and tailor your messages towards that. I’ll give a few scenarios in just a bit.
As to where on your body, again tailor it to your ideal scenario. You can write pretty much anywhere you like, but the most common body areas that I’ve seen are breasts, chest, stomach, thighs, back, arms, face, and sometimes the ass. When choosing where to write your message take into consideration the scenario you’re choosing. You can write in sensual zones, you can write where you personally have maximum visibility, you can play on your body issues (please keep it healthy if you do. Body shaming can lead to dark places at times), you can write on areas you want to be touched or played with, or you can try and cover as much space as possible.
Now, I don’t fully understand every kink and personally don’t get off on some, but I can provide a jumping off point for some of the more common scenarios. Feel free to skip any that disinterest you.
A note on pictures before I get into it: I personally have had my tablet A)auto back up all my files to photobucket and google drive and B)store pictures in multiple locations on my tablet so even though I delete it from my gallery, it’s still in the camera folder. Not great for when you’re trying to show friends and family pictures of your hobbies. To be safe if you’re taking pics just for play play make sure your device has the Wifi off (usually by putting it in airplane mode, but double check) and delete before turning it back on. If you plan on sending or sharing images with a limited audience, make sure you update your auto-syncing preferences for devices.
Degradation and humiliation are extremely personal subjects, which is why finding what works is such a tricky process. What one person finds degrading another may find exhilarating. Exploring yourself and your partner dynamic takes patience and time, but can be very rewarding. Learn your triggers and your preferred after care practices. Triggers are things that put your mind in a dark place for any number of reasons and after care is what you do after play to ensure that your mental health stays positive. After care is SUPER IMPERATIVE for solo play.
So how can we narrow down what’s gonna work? Again, think about the relationship you’d like to have and then do some trial and error. Everyone has words that give them that little shiver down the spine. In no particular order here are some of the main types of words:
Animals and animal parts like cow, dog, bitch, pony, pig, teats, udders, etc.
Body parts like tits, cunt, pussy, ass, etc.
Object or function like cocksleeve, slut, whore, cum dump, fucktoy, fuck meat, masturbation tool, etc.
Insults like piece of shit, freak, ass wipe, etc.
Intelligence and worth put downs like stupid, idiot, bimbo, worthless, useless, airhead, dumbass, etc.
Nasty dirty names like toilet, urinal, spittoon, dumpster, etc.
Fun add-ons like little, naughty, insatiable, puppy, etc.
Confessions like "I just sucked C cocks" or "I love to be fucked in the ass"
And men specific words like wimp, sissy, and faggot
Examples I’ve found of these are usually less about degradation and more about ownership, exposure, or showing off. Consider phrases like “Daddy’s little girl” or “Only for Daddy” and good words to throw into the mix include: princess, little, good, Daddy, and girl. Writing in a cutesy style can also help reinforce the image as well as dressing up for the part if you’re into it - pigtails and cute little outfits can enhance your experience. There’s also the more abusive version of this kink where you can be Daddy’s little fuck toy or even rape toy if that’s your fantasy. In that case little details like slightly smeared make up or ripped clothing can enhance your play session.
Despite the abundance of examples within daddy dom, I haven’t seen as much with the writing with this kink. Usually it involves more of an offering vibe. Phrases like “Hot for your cum” or “I need your cock” work well for the hot for son vibe.
Bully option - this is probably closer to the blackmail scenario where messages can be more about ownership or degradation. I’ve seen instances where the son is the bully and some where the son has a bully so you can tailor your messages to that.
Definitely a lot of this out there in the world. In my experience the main theme of interracial play is about male supremacy (usually over males of another race by better pleasing their women), especially in the cock size department and usually either black or white. Phrases tend to look like “Black/White cock only” or “BBC/BWC whore” (big black/white cock). Also popular is tick marks - “I just got fucked by llll BBCs!” You can add ticks as you play if you like, maybe for each imaginary encounter or for each orgasm you have. Other topics that are prevalent in this kind of play are breeding and sometimes forced/conversion situations. Add terms like “Black/White bred bitch” or “converted to BBC/BWC”
This is a fun scenario either by itself or added to another kink (whored out by master, daddy, son, bully, blackmailer, etc.). This is another instance where tick marks can be fun (“llll people have fucked this ass”) and also a list of prices for various services. To add to the humiliation you can make the price free or insultingly low “Blowjobs - $1, Pussy - $2, Ass - FREE”. This is also a good opportunity for name dropping “John was here” or “property of Jack” and also for more dress up fun. Something fairly unique to this scenario is reviews. These can be along the lines of performance reviews “4/5 Would fuck again” or suggestions to future clients “Loose cunt, use ass instead”. Put on your sluttiest outfit and make up for your play session to ramp it up. Add a little bondage and blindfolding simulate more of a forced experience and this is a great opportunity to write in lipstick.
Another add on scenario that’s good for many dynamics. The main themes here are going to be ownership, humiliation, and exposure. You can write your name in exposure, “Expose and share Jane Doe as a slut”, you can write someone else’s name for ownership, “property of John”, or you can use degrading phrases, perhaps even of acts you’ve been “forced” to do, “This slut sucked 5 cocks tonight”. You can add on acts that you’ve been “forced” to do with your writings as well (this is another potential place for lipstick as well). For added excitement/danger add some light bondage or snap a selfie or two.
Safety first!
Protect your privacy by making sure you delete pictures before you access insecure or auto sharing locations (i.e. automatic photo back-up to the cloud for phones) and if you do decide to share a naughty picture make sure there is
NOTHING
on there that you don’t want seen lest your fantasy become a little too true.
Body writing for pet play revolves mostly around ownership and identity reinforcement, though sometimes for punishment, sharing, or humiliation at the owner’s discretion. You can use this opportunity to reinforce your role as “Pig Slut” or “Bitch in heat” or “Fuck Kitty”, whatever you identify as and put a name in front to specify your owned status as “John’s Fuck Kitty”. You can also imagine scenarios such as punishment “I have been a bad dog for [insert action]”, sharing “Party Bitch, fuck it doggy style”, or humiliation adding as many degrading words and adjectives as you like. Get in full pet play gear for added effect and even do a punishment if you chose that route. Don’t forget to make the appropriate animal noises, animal poses, and maybe even do a few tricks. And remember to remind yourself at the end that you’ve been a “good pet” and you might just get a treat.
This part of the kink world is going to result in body writing mostly about female inferiority. These messages have a wide range: basic degradation “cheap whore”; insulting worth/intelligence “stupid worthless whore”; reducing to animal status “fat pig”; to complete dehumanization “brainless fuck toy”. How deep you go depends on you. Adjacent to this is also pro-patriarchy and anti-feminism messages if you decide to include them. Messy or severe handwriting can help to enhance play as well - not even worth the effort of the male making the lettering pretty. Extras that you can add on to the fun are some bondage, some pain play, demeaning outfits, and fun with toys. This is a time when your toy can be really integral to your play as practice for pleasing Sir’s cock. Most of the play for this genre is that the needs of men are most important (and if you go deep into it the only importance) so make sure you get your skills up to par and even add in a little denial if you want. After all, patriarchy fuck toys are all replaceable and the best ones are selfless.
So this is a new section from the original post. I suppose it didn't occur to me because, well.... bimbos aren't known for their writing skills. But you can have some fun with body writing still! The main focus here is going to be labeling and misspelling. Labeling is good in case you forget things, like what you are or what your parts of the body are or what you're supposed to do or have other people do. And Misspelling is because bimbos are cute and bubbly and not concerned about the little details like how you spell words, you're more concerned with shoes and tits and sex and hair and sex and omg, look at that dress, it'll make my ass look so fantastic!
If you want to reinforce a punishment, body writing can certainly help with that - especially for those in long distance relationships. Write whatever preface you want followed by what you did to earn your punishment like “This worthless bimbo forgot to do her chores”. You can even tack on what your punishment was such as “now she has to wear clothespins on her nipples for 10 minutes”. This will reinforce reflection time on your mistake and provide a further reminder each time