Adventures in self degradation and humiliation

This is a shortish list of different kinks you can experiment with on your own aimed towards solo play. Not everything is for everyone, and many things are more effective with a partner. This is not a complete list, but a list of things that are relatively easily accessible and don’t lose too much in solo play. That being said, if you feel I left something out let me know and I'll add it on. I've also added some notes for my suggestions on how to try it out.

Age play (infant) - Drink from a baby bottle as you play.

Anal Sex - Lube up a finger and work it into your ass. If it's not working, add more lube. Rule 1 of starting anal play, lube, lube, and more lube.

Anal Beads - Buy a set (size corresponding to your anal skills. If you have none, go small.) and plenty of lube. Give it a shot and see how it feels

Anal Plug - Get a plug and again lots of lube and put it in, see how it feels. Get one with a wide base so it doesn't disappear and keep in mind that ones that flair close to the base stretch your hole, ones that leave a space fill you up.

Bimbo - Let your mind become blank. And horny. Do your make up and dress up sexy and cute.

Body painting - Use washable, tempera, or body paints to paint your tits or stomach

Body Writing – Write your favorite name, title, or phrase to be told across your chest. Tips here.

Bondage - Use a long strip of fabric or easy to untie rope and tie your ankles together simply using a bow like a basic shoe tie. Alternatively, use to two and tie your legs to opposite bed posts. Keep scissors handy in case you can’t undo a knot and if you have enough room, use the knot you use on shoes for easier untying.

CBT (Cock and Ball Torture) - Not applicable to solo women, but solo males and trans can enjoy. To start, just give your cock or balls a bit of a smacking.

Diapers - Put on an adult diaper and make a mess in it.

Drool - Let your tongue hang out until you drool all over yourself. You can also use a gag, a clip at the end of your tongue, or rubber band two chopsticks/Popsicle sticks around your tongue (snugly, but not really tight) to get you started. 

Enemas - Give yourself an enema. There really is no small leap here, you do it or not. Kits available at drugstores.

Figging/Ginger – Traditionally, this is putting peeled ginger into your ass as a painful punishment. If you want a preview of this, start by playing with the ginger at your asshole.

Fisting - This is a no halfway kink. You can either fit a fist in your pussy or ass or you can't. If you can't, move along or start a stretching regimen. Fisting shouldn't be painful with proper warm up and stretching.

Food - Eat something off your body. Whipped cream is a classic choice. If you get food in your private parts, make sure that you clean it out well to avoid infection.

Foot Fetish - Harder to do solo. For a starting exercise I would say hump or nuzzle a shoe.

Gags - Insert the middle of a long strip of fabric (scarf, bandanna, etc.) into your mouth and tie it securely behind your head. Or duct your mouth closed. DO NOT block your nose when your mouth is gagged.

Human Furniture - Balance something non-breakable on your back while on all fours (stuffed animal, pillow, book, etc.) and hold it for set amount of time. Become the table.

Orgasm Control - During play when you're good and turned on, set a time or signal to when you can come.

Orgasm Denial - For one day, play and edge, but don't cum

Public Humiliation - Starting out go out with something you could pass off as a mistake. A shirt worn inside out, incorrectly applied or smudged make up, something embarrassing stuck on your clothing, etc.

Pain play - Get a ruler, wooden spoon, or similar object and give yourself a few smacks. Easy targets are tits, cunt, and ass, stomachs and thighs are also fun - please avoid your lower back.

Pet Play - Put on a collar and leash and play fetch and beg for a treat. Any movement should be on all fours

Piss drinking - Pee on your fingers and suck it off.

Rubber/Latex/PVC - Get an item of rubber clothing and wear it. Could be a hood or a shirt or underwear or pants, whatever you want. Be mindful of latex allergies and starters should choose hoods with sizable holes for breathing.

Scat - Play with a piece of shit. Squeeze it and play with it in your fingers. Wash up after.

Sensation Play - Blindfold yourself and run various items across your body - paint brushes, feathers, fabrics, wooden spoons, etc. Experiment with alternating hard and soft touches.

Sensory Deprivation - Put on a blind fold and headphones and play with yourself.

Spanking - Spank your ass a few times to make it pink

Temperature Play - Use an ice cube to tease your nipples and clit, then stick it in your pussy to let it melt. Towel recommended.

Tit Torture - Go ahead and smack them around a little bit, clamp the nipple for extra effect

Toilet Play - Piss and scat not required, stick your head in the toilet bowl and hold it there. Alternatively, nuzzle and kiss the seat and rim of the toilet. If you clean it before hand be mindful of chemical residue (please don't lick potentially dried bleach). For trial purposes, I propose giving it a quick wash with dish soap.

Uniforms - Usually more of a partner role-playing scenario, but you can don a cheerleader or school girl uniform for solo play too.

Verbal Degradation - Call yourself a worthless piece of shit whore while you play.

Water sports - Piss through a pair of panties or piss in a bucket and dump it over yourself.

Edge Play - Proceed With Great Caution

Edge play is a term that refers to kink activities that are potentially dangerous. Improperly done, several of these activities can land you in the hospital, leave you with permanent marks, or worse kill you. Again, and louder, THESE CAN POTENTIALLY LAND YOU IN THE HOSPITAL OR EVEN KILL YOU IF YOU DON'T DO THEM RIGHT. Some of these I'll give an introductory blurb on, but I focus on mostly solo play and therefore there are things I absolutely will not condone or discuss beyond saying do not attempt alone. They are solely on this list because you may see it around and be curious. If you want instructions or information, go to a different blog, but get informed before you even attempt.

Breathplay - Danger of suffocation AND DEATH! DO NOT ATTEMPT BY YOURSELF! On this list this is the easiest way to accidentally kill yourself.

Corsets - Danger of air restriction! Also, hard to do alone. For soloists keep it to decorative use.

Cupping - Danger of burns and excess pressure on skin! This also potentially requires special materials and is an old Chinese medicinal method. Get proper materials, read up, not recommended for inexperienced solo play!

Drowning/Water Play - Danger of actually drowning! Not recommended for solo play.

Electric Play - Danger of electrocution! Buy an e-stim kit or a violet wand from a reputable shop. I'm not knowledgeable on this yet, so read up elsewhere.

Knife Play - Danger of blood loss! Not recommended for solo play and do research before you start!

Needle Play - Danger of blood loss and nerve damage! Not the most dangerous on here, but do your research before pursuing this. To start scrape a needle along your skin or try lightly poking a needle into your arm or tits.

Puke Play - Danger of body erosion! While one session isn't all that dangerous, repeatedly vomiting means stomach acid wearing away at your internal organs - it can eventually start to wear down even your teeth.

Rape Play - Danger of kidnapping, serious injury, and death! This is on the list because of the blog's solo focus. IF you have a partner and you trust them enough to set up a mutually consensual rape play session for you, then there's no issue. DO NOT become rape bait by yourself with unknown participants. 

Sounding - Inserting items into your urethra. This is for intense pain sluts and I don't know much about it, but I'm pretty sure you need special tools to start out. Either way, I currently don't recommend doing this alone, and if you're interested look elsewhere for info.

Wax Play - Danger of serious burns! Get a kit designed for wax play, they melt at lower temperatures than table or scented candles. The farther away it falls from the cooler it is on the skin.