Adventures in self degradation and humiliation

Today I wanna talk about piss play AKA water sports. This is a kink that's not for everyone, but has quite a few different ways to be enjoyed. This is also one of the kinks I've seen that can be even more fun (and humiliating) with your clothes on!

Risks?

So water sports is a fairly low risk activity. Urine is a bodily fluid, so some STI transmission risk is present for certain infections, but mainly if you're drinking it or if you have any open wounds. The other risk comes from the fact that it is a bodily waste, so it's made from stuff your kidneys are trying to flush out of your body. Normally it's mostly water, but if the person is taking medication or is sick (not like an STI, but a cold or other normal illness, especially UTIs), then by-products can pass through to the urine. But for the most part if you trust your partner and everyone involved is healthy then go for it. For solo play, so long as you're healthy go for it, though being sick at the moment I can say if you're not healthy you may not even feel up to drinking it regardless.

Ways to play

So there are a few different facets here that I'll talk about. All of them have a place in humiliation play. And of course, all parties can do all of these activities in any state of dress.

Golden Showers - being pissed on

Potentially the most well known version of piss play. This can happen when you're clothed, naked, kneeling, in the tub, on your head in the toilet, anywhere really. Hard to simulate by yourself, though you can pee in a cup/bowl/water gun/funnel system and pour it on yourself. If you have the flexibility you can also try and piss on yourself.

Wetting

Wetting is when you piss on something, whether it's bed wetting, clothes wetting or wetting the floor it can be hot and fun though involve some serious clean-up. This aspect can be great fun in control scenes and also in various types of age play. I'll talk more about those aspects later though.

Piss Drinking

Pretty self explanatory. It can be yours or your partners, though take a look at the risks section above. Some places I looked at suggested that you don't drink your first piss of the day, and some also say that the more water you drink the more it tastes like water. What I can tell you it in my experience piss tastes pretty salty. For me it's one of those.... acquired tastes. You either like it, train yourself to drink it straight through will power, or you cut it with something more pleasant/water it down until you can drink it.

Pee withholding

This is when you don't pee. You just have to be careful with this because it can harm your body if you hold your pee in for too long, but in play situations you can use the discomfort for a scene. This can also be a control situation where someone sets specific times for your potty breaks. You also have to be careful with something that is frequently paired with this which is drinking set amounts of water. You can drink too much water, and drinking too much water combined with holding in your pee can wreak havoc on your body. Just play safe and know your body.

How to get started?

Well, first steps kind of depend on where you wanna go with it, and I'll get into how you can incorporate this into some specific kinks in a minute, but first I suggest peeing on your hand. It's a pretty simple act that's easy to do, you have the tools for clean up handy already too. If you're into drinking piss, then lick it off your fingers (maybe wash your hands before as well). If you're into the control aspect then before you pee, sit on the toilet for a few minutes and beg mentally for permission to pee. If you want to progress with golden showers, get yourself a decent sized bowl, piss in it, and pour it over yourself in the tub/shower before you turn the water on to get yourself clean.

Below are some kink specific suggestions on how to incorporate water sports into you playtime.

Age Play (infant) or Diaper Play - the obvious connection here is diapers. Wear them, use them, change them.

Age Play (littles) - So with little play depending on your relationship dynamic you can add some control play into the mix. Supervision as well can be a good addition. Clothes wetting is also another fun way to spice things up, maybe from desperation, maybe from embarrassment, depends on the situation. Have some fun with it.

Bondage and Gags - Now in terms of partner play, there's lots of everything that can be combined, but with solo play there are still options. Piss soaked gags can be lots of fun, piss soaked panty gags more so. Setting up a bucket of piss to soak you at some point during your bondage session can add some fun to it. And of course, piss ice cubes (see Temperature Play) and a funnel can provide the set up for a fun session. Desperation can also come into play here, setting up in a place where you can wet yourself halfway through can add to your delicious discomfort.

Control Play (i.e. Dom/sub play) - There's a fair bit of control that can be had with this kind of play. Setting up a schedule, controlling how (i.e. only completely naked or can never sit on the seat) or where someone can pee (i.e. only in the yard when at home). You can give time limits for bathroom breaks. You can even get commands to start and stop your stream. And then of course orders involving drinking piss or when it's time for a golden shower.

Enemas - Piss enemas! Need I say more?

Food Play - There's lots of different ways to play with food. Piss comes into the picture when you pee on your food before you eat it. Whether you get your food damp or soaked, use it instead of milk on your cereal, or drink it with your meal (perhaps out of a water bottle or a refilled beer bottle) it can be a fun humiliating addition.

Pet Play - House training is an important part of pet life. You may take walkies out in the yard, have a designated spot in the house for your business, or you may have your very own litter box. Don't forget about potential accidents as well - someone may have to rub your nose in it.

Public Humiliation and Exhibitionism - For the exhibitionists out there, taking a leak in an alley or public park can be fun, and really you can squat anywhere in public, but please keep in mind public decency laws and be considerate that this is not everyone's cup of tea. In terms of public humiliation, well wetting yourself in public can be pretty embarrassing, especially as an adult.

Role Play - while not necessarily age play, self wetting or desperation wetting can be a fun little detail to add into your scenarios. A humiliation for instance, maybe you're a school girl who wets herself from nervousness in the middle of class. Lots of room for creativity here!

Scat/Messy play - If you're gonna make mud or other messy substances, maybe try and make it with piss. And as for scat play, if you're gonna play with shit, you might as well play with piss too.

Temperature Play - While fresh piss is warm (and cools way too quickly in my opinion) I'm talking about piss cubes. Assuming you have the privacy (I don't really care to explain frozen piss in the freezer ice cube trays to my vanilla roomies) you can do fun temperature play with frozen piss. Freeze some in a tray and use them for whatever you'd use ice for!