Adventures in self degradation and humiliation
18+ ONLY! I am the wall of text on your dashboard. This is a blog with tasks, advice, and stories aimed toward female submissives without partners, are in long term relationships, just getting started, etc. Most of the emphasis is going to be on solo play and most of the posts are going to be more instructive rather than immersive. Even though I'm concentrating on femsubs, everyone is welcome (unless you're underage. If you are, kindly leave until you mature). TRIGGER WARNING: Just about everything. Snowflakes enter at your own risk.
It's December! Who's got an advent calendar?
I’m so excited it’s December! Guess who has 24 posts lined up for Christmas? This blogger! Well....you know....80% right now, but it’s mostly finalizing and such. So kicking off my X-mas month taskish posts I’m gonna talk about the new DIY advent calendar craze. I say craze, it’s more like I saw it on some craft channels and overpriced ones selling on Etsy, so not sure how much of a craze it is per se, but eh.
So If you haven’t guessed I’m proposing a kinky advent calendar! And really it can be a monthly thing or a countdown to a work paid day off or you know, whatever you want to look at it as. But the idea is pretty simple and you can make it as elaborate as you want. You can put tasks or actions or workout things on pieces of paper, then you can create your own calendar! Put them in a specific order or make it random - your choice!.
You can buy a set of blank cards (those diy greeting cards) and use that, then open one each day, if you’ve got enough little boxes those work as well, you can buy a diy advent calendar as well. There’s lots of options. Heck, if you’ve got some left over you can use Easter eggs to set up a system!
So what should you put in there? Tasks or challenges that are realistic and can be done in a relatively short amount of time. If you have something you want to concentrate on then use that - like if you want to improve your oral skill make oral tasks like “10 min. of deep throat practice” or “holding dildo in mouth at max. depth for 90 seconds” etc. If not you can choose random things you may not have done in awhile that you want to rediscover. How long ago was the last time you did bondage, or anal, or a little pain play with clamps? Well it’s about time don’t you think! Or you could do what I do and just put down whatever sounds like a fun idea.
But most importantly, something like an advent calendar is mostly a countdown to focus on something. If you’re looking for a system to self improvement you can use a similar system of course, but don’t put too much pressure on this. If you miss a day, do it tomorrow, just have fun with it, don’t make it a huge responsibility!
Oh, and don’t worry, the rest of the posts I have planned for December are more humiliation centric!